I‘ve noticed something about this phenomenon lately and that is when you are single, no chicks are keen on you. But the very moment you are attached or heading that way, suddenly options opened up like its raining women. What’s up with that man! Before it’s like a barren land where all the chicks are either attached or just not keen on you. The moment you focus more on one and make some serious headway, another few appears. What do you do then? Abandon ship? Date them all? Why can’t they appear around the same time so it’s fair to get a feel which lady is more right. Why is it that when you are closing in, more ladies start giving you the ‘hello there’ look. The phenomenon of one equals more. That’s how I would term it.
When I was married there were some pretty hot ones around. Then when I wasn’t so married, everyone’s gone. You need to have one to get more. Somehow ladies are like insecure bees. They need to see a fellow bee hanging around some flower to be sure that this nectar is sweet. If the flower is available with its nectar wide open, no bees will hover there. It’s like hey girls, this one must be bland. Let’s skip it and see where the others are camping. Something’s got to be wrong with this one. Let me know how you get one bee to stumble in and you may possibly be on a verge of a bee assault.
So now I have a dilemma, to proceed or to wait around and see how the others will turn up. Colleagues are introducing interesting options suddenly when the very same ones were not so forthcoming months ago. Ladies are coming forward making their admiration for you known. What’s up with that! Where were all these months back? Or is it just the God of breaking jinxes of ‘no babes on your front seat’ have finally gotten to my indexed book of prayers? At this moment, it is very tempting to get greedy I suppose. But I guess a bird in hand is better than two in the bush. In this case more than two. Sigh. Back to slow cooker. Least she’s more or less a keeper. Double boil soup here I come!
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Wei, bro! What you say, women are like bees ah!! Chey!!
PLease lah, us gerls are also faced with the same prob. When single, no nobody will look (unless we wear like super hot pants and show a lot of skin n boobs).
When we finally get a guy's attention (usually the one that we don't intend to be with) suddenly the wolves come knocking in. Haiz.
But what to do. I guess it's a trial for us. If we can just knock the obstructions down with a bulldozer and just focus on that ONE, then we pass the test. If we don't then probably it just tells us that we are not ready for a proper relationship.
Anywho, that's what I feel/guess anyway. Different people different opinion ya...
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